Life lessons….

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I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you.  All you can do is be someone who can be loved.  The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others.  Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.   And, just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt, and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.  Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned that heroes are people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you can’t.

Turning her on, and getting her in the mood!

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What are good ways to turn on my girlfriend?

Not all of the following is realistic for EVERY situation, but you’ll get the general idea….

Step 1: Setting the Mood: (not always a MUST)

Depending on what she personally likes. The biggest difference about women and men are that women need to have there mind stimulated in order for them to get in the mood or turned on. If you don’t have that, then it will make things much tougher.

Stimulate senses…(foods, smells, music…) and use that to set the mood. Make her a special dinner at home or pick dinner up and make her feel like the center of the evening!   The important part is to surprise her by showing you were paying attention to some historic detail and that you know something about her that she did not know you knew. Women LOVE it when men pay attention to details.  It scores huge points (with me at least)

Step 2: Create a sense of “build up”

If you are with her that day tell her how pretty she looks, how good she smells ( I LOVE this compliment) or something slightly more provocative like, wow, you look so hot in that outfit, or.. those jeans look amazing on your ass.  Just make sure you don’t say this stuff in a slimy way.  This will get her thinking and make her feel good, like you’re paying attention to her.

Stuff like kissing, Back rubs…touching softly, gentle touches with your fingertips everywhere, teasing.. but not sex.  start slow.. hands in her hair and on the neck with lots of soft kisses planted around… Make sure you mix it up a bit though, don’t just go straight for the sure fire zones (if you get my meaning).. teasing is a good thing, like kissing her stomach then gradually getting closer to her area, teasing her, making her THINK you’re going for it,  and then not actually doing it, and moving on to something else. Guarantee she will be practically begging for it!  I personally love it when I’m teased!!  It makes me want it sooo bad!  Take your time, and build anticipation, focus on her. This is the hardest part, because usually men just want to get to business, but women take longer then men to build up.  On average women take 20 minutes of foreplay to get completely turned on and in the mood!!  Keep that in mind!

Step 3: Go Crazy:

If you did step 1 and step 2 right, and took your time to “prime” her… you’re set for success! She should be in the mood and you know that you are!

How To Get Your Wife or Girlfriend To Want More Sex

Here’s some interesting facts I’ve gathered from By: MR. L. RX ….

why is it if women are more sexual then men that men are the ones who are usually complaining about not getting enough sex?  The answer lies in two differences between men and women.

1) Women don’t get physically turned on as easily as men. And conversely women get turned off more easily then men. So if I guy is not doing or saying the right things to his girl, she won’t get turned on, and in fact might get turned off.

2) Combine that with the fact that women have one ability that men don’t have and you will start to get a better understanding of the situation — Even though women are more sexual and enjoy sex more deeply than men are capable of, women are also capable of going without sex for longer periods of time. Women are not as sexually “needy” as men.

Let’s put it another way - Sex is first and foremost a “quality” thing for women.

Look at some of the women’s complaint’s in polls:
90% of women reported that they wished their partner kissed them more or with more passion.
65% of women felt their partner did not have a good kissing technique.

So you see men are more into quantity and women are more into quality.

But, here is what you should know, if you give a women the “quality” of sexual relations that she is desiring then she will want the quantity. And when you really turn your woman on, and she is in the quality and quantity mode. Most women will have most men on the mat screaming “No Mas” in a short period of time.

So if your women is not having sex with you as frequently as you’d like, then you can safely assume that you are not doing something right in the “quality” department. You are either turning her off or not turning her on – in any case you are doing something wrong.

What mistakes do guys make in regards to turning women on? Here are the four most common mistakes that I find men making with respect to turning women on.

1) No Romance – Now I’ve talked about this one extensively in my other writings. So let me just put it simply here. You can’t stop romancing a girl after you get her to be your girlfriend or wife. Whatever you did to get the girl, you have to keep doing it, do it more extensively, find new ways of doing it, etc. – as long as you want to keep creating a relationship with this person, you have to keep creating romance with them.

2) Boring Sexual Routine – Sometimes people fall into a sexual routine that is fun a first put becomes boring when done day after day, night after night. Try some new things, vary the routine. It will help keep things fresh and interesting between the two of you. Talk about your likes and desires and new things you would like to try. Talk about your fantasies. Be willing to do things she would like to do in exchange for trying things you would like to do. If you run out of ideas, we have a free mini-courses on our website, “How To Be a Great Lover” and other free materials to help you out with ideas.

3) Not understanding a women’s body – a lot of guys, especially the younger ones, don’t understand a women’s body. Women need more preparatory (before actual sex) stimulation than men. Men only have to think about it and seem to be ready to do the deed. Women need to think about it and think about it and think about it to become interested and turned on.

Extensive foreplay is a necessity for women to get physically ready and mentally ready to enjoy and get into sex. Talking, having a romantic dinner, holding hands, kissing for hours (like you did on your first dates ) all prepares a women’s body for sex and turns her on. Never, never, never try to have intercourse with a women until she is turned on. Keep kissing, keep touching, but never have intercourse until she is totally turned on.

4) Not taking a women to multiple orgasms. –Practically any women is capable of multiple orgasms. Many think they aren’t so they don’t try and many aren’t turned on enough or are a little turned off by their lover so that prevents them from having multiple orgasms.

The reality though is practically all women can have multiple orgasms. This is a subject that books are written on and if you don’t know how to make a women orgasm than I suggest you get one and learn how to make a women orgasm.

You need to learn to observe your partner’s body. Learn and understand how it works. Some men are even unsure if a women is even having an orgasm.

If you are observant you will start to observe and know when she is having an orgasm. Sometimes you can feel the orgasm tighten around you as you are having sex, other times you can feel the women’s whole body tighten as she begins to orgasm, sometimes there is quiver or a vibration from her as she begins to orgasm, other times she begins to get vocal as she orgasms, or the opposite, she becomes silent as she begins to orgasm. Each women is uniquely different from my experiences, but any women can be figured out if you just become observant.

For some women multiple orgasms are achieved outside of intercourse. My last girlfriend liked to have the first orgasm by finger or hand, the second by mouth, and the third and subsequent orgasms by intercourse.

For some women, orgasms are always achieved outside of intercourse. Sometimes two bodies just don’t fit together the right way to naturally create an orgasm for the women. Be willing to give your partner an orgasm each time you have sex, any way you can – by finger or hand, by mouth, or by machine if you have to.

Please your partner. Do whatever it takes. Always think of her and her pleasure first.

As a rule I always give my partner her orgasm or orgasms first before I orgasm as it is much harder (both physically and mentally) to give your partner an orgasm when you are flaccid.

In conclusion, if you learn to:

1) NOT do the things that turn women off, and 2) do the things that turn women on, you will probably get more sex out of your women than you can handle. Then I will have to answer your questions when you write to me like this: 

“My girl and I really have fantastic sex, and I really love her, but please, she is wearing me out, I can’t keep up with her demands for sex. What do I do to slow her down, without offending her?”

Mr L.Rx gives advice to men on how to meet, date, and relate to women. He is also available for private consultation and coaching. Additional information on this topic is at http://www.DatingToRelating.com

The Zoo

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We went to the local Zoo yesterday and had a blast walking around and playing with the monkeys.  It’s a small zoo, but I LOVE animals so I had a great time!!  Plus it was just perfect weather and so beautiful outside, so we couldn’t go wrong.  OHHH… and I got to see and pet the goats! ha!!  I love goats and used to play with them all the time in Arizona, and missed seeing them.  So yesterday was fun for me! (you can click on the pic above to make it larger)

After the zoo we headed to the mall nearby and I got to eat at a place that I used to go to in Arizona ALL THE TIME.  They only have one here in LA and OMG it was sooooo freaking good! I really wish they’d open one in Orange County by me… it would be a huge hit.  it’s called Paradise Bakery.  It’s by the same people who do Panera Bread.  I love Panera too, but Paradise is a million times better. heeh! :)  SO I was lucky to get my “fix” yesterday.

After that, we came home… chilled with the doggies, took em for a walk… then headed over to get dinner at one of our favorite Crepe places.    I had a nice chill day.  

Today I have to finish up on some work for my site and run some errands.  It’s the weekend though, so I’m going to try to sit back and relax as much as possible!

I will be shooting again for my site this coming week.  I can’t wait!  I have a lot of sexy outfits for you guys!  Hope you have a good weekend! xoxoxo, Sandee 

Check out my site:
www.sexysandee.com

 

 

 

Lunch with the girls

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Hey guys!! (and girls)  I spent yesterday working, then went to lunch for Star’s Birthday in Newport Beach at the Rusty Pelican.  It was delicious food, and soooo beautiful outside!!  The restaurant over-looks the ocean, so we had an amazing view.  Here’s a pic (sorry it’s a little blurry)  It’s not from my camera.

After lunch, I came home and worked a little more before relaxing with my doggies on the couch for the night.  hehe!  Today I’ve been trying to transfer all my programs over to my new computer and look up serial numbers, ect.  Very annoying and not fun at all! hahah!   Puma is coming over late tonight which will be nice.  It’s always awesome to see her.  She’s leaving in the AM but at least I have her here for the night.  :)

I hope you all have a great day!  Kisses, Sandee

Erotica LA pics

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Here’s some pics from Erotica LA yesterday:

Me and Nikki Benz:

me and Puma Swede:

Me and Puma again:

Me, Puma, and Sophie Dee:

Me, Nikki and Puma:

And me alone:

Erotica LA Sat the 12th

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WOW, I’ve really been slacking on my blog updates ever since I got a Twitter account.  I guess I update that throughout the day so I put my blog on the backburner!   Eeeeek, sorry guys!

Sooo…. I’m not signing, but I will be walking around the Erotica LA show tomorrow around 12:30-1pm to say hi to all my friends and of course fans!  So come up and say hello!  (please no grabbing) hahah!  Yes, I’ve been grabbed before, and it’s not fun!  So be gentle and sweet please :) heheh!

I’ve been dealing with doggy mommy issues.  I thought Cody was having seizures too, but I came to find out he has degenerative disc disease.  EEEKS, it’s a WORSE problem to have because you can treat the symptoms only to a certain extent before surgery is needed.  So… with him being 7 this sucks ass!   Luckily his meds have helped him, and he’s not in any more pain at this point.  It can come back at anytime though, which is completley disheartening.  My poor baby!  Here I am pushing him in a doggy stroller when his back was in complete pain:

So what else is new???  I had to get a new computer…. UHG!  I UNFORTUNETELY made the mistake of buying one of the “all in one” HP touchsmart PC’s last October.  The computer has had issues from the begining… but then I broke the firewire insert and I was completely screwed!  So… I just ran up to Fry’s electronics and got a new tower that has doube the memory and space anyway, but what a bummer!  I HATE transfering over all my programs I need for my site updates, editing, ect.  It’s a hassle!  But, it is what it is… could have been MUCH worse!

Here’s a pic from this week when Erick and I were out to lunch in Huntington Beach.   The weather has been AMAZING and we’ve been getting out as much as possible!

Well, I guess that’s it for now.  Definetley follow me on Twitter if you’re not already, that’s where all my daily updates are posted….  http://twitter.com/sandeewestgate

And of course… come join my official site… I just added a second spy cam to my living room!!  Check it out at: http://sexysandee.com  Kisses, Sandee

Sandee Westgate and Puma Swede videos

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 I shot for Brazzers Friday, and then with Puma Swede for our personal sites again yesterday.  Above is an edited down version of the full video.  Of course on youtube you can’t show any nudity…ect.  There will be 2 full videos posted in my members area this coming week!  One of the Brazzers shoot, and a longer version of the video above.  I had SUCH an amazing shoot with Brazzers.  It was Me, Puma, and Sandy from Hungary.  You can check her out at www.ClubSandy.com   She’s soooo freaking sexy!!  And even MORE amazing in person.  I’ve been a fan of hers from about…. 6 years now!!  I’ve been WAITING for the chance to get to fuck work with her!!!  And it was all I imagined and hoped for!!  The scene should be ready in a couple of months!  I can’t wait to see the final product! 

I was lucky enough to get to stay at Puma’s house after my Brazzers shoot… I ALWAYS love spending time with her.  We’re like sisters…. and we always have a good time filled with laughter! hehe!

My babies were happy to have me home.  I’ve been cuddeling with them pretty much all day!  We just finished watched the MTV music awards (I admit… I mainly watched it cause I knew Robert Pattinson would be on) but I enjoyed all of it!!  I just wish there were more live music performances. :)

Anyways…… tomorrow I don’t have much going on.  Of course, since it’s Monday… there’s a new gallery going up for my members of www.SexySandee.com and I have my matience guy coming to fix my broken washer at 9am.  I’ve had no washer for 5 days or so…and my laundry is piling up.  Uhhg!

Anyways…… I hope you all are doing well!  I can’t believe it’s already June!  WOW!!! Have a good night everyone! oxox, Sandee

   

 

Fun with the girls

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It was Jesse Capelli’s birthday party last night in Huntington beach… so all of us gathered at RA for dinner. :)  It was so much fun!  I think there was about 15 people total, maybe more and we all had drinks and sushi while we visited.  (well I only had miso soup) no sushi for me :)  Anyways, it was a blast (as always)  I love my girls!!!

Nothing too new with me.  I’ve been hanging out with friends, loved ones and my doggies lately.   It’s been beautiful weather in Orange County and I’ve been trying to get out as much as possible to enjoy it.  Here’s a pic of me and Dylan the other day:

He’s such a good boy! hehe!  I go in my backyard at least a few times a day and play “throw the frisbee” with Dylan and Rocket.  Technically Rocket is the one that fetches it.. but Dylan thinks he’s playing by chasing Rocket all around the yard.  Once in a while he actually steels the toy and plays a damn good game of keep away with Rocket! hahah!  My 5 doggies keep me busy! LOL I feel like a stay at home mom with these 5 little buggers. :)

I will be shooting for my site a little more this week… then I’m shooting for Brazzers on Friday, and Saturday I’m shooting with Puma Swede for our sites here in OC.  I looooove shooting close to home.  Driving out to Los Angeles is NOT fun with all the traffic here.  In fact I literally hate it and dread it.  Oh well… it is what it is… right?

Well. I’m off to get some work done.  If you’re not following me on Twitter… add me now!  http://www.twitter.com/sandeewestgate and get all of my perosnal daily updates there!  Also… check out my members area and join my site today!!  Do so here: http://www.sandeewestgate.com/join.html

xoxoox, Sandee

Hey there!

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Hi guys!  Here’s a pic from last night at a dive bar of me TRYING to play pool.  I swear I used to be good, YEARS ago… and somehow I forgot all my little tips and tricks. LOL!  Poor Erick was having to coach me just to hit the damn balls.  WOW, I sucked, but it was fun!  We were only there to pass 30 minutes till our dinner reservation was ready.  But it was a good time none the less ;)

I also shot a couple sets for my members area yesterday… Mmmm they’re sooo hot!  I can’t wait for you guys to see them.   Today I have loads of work to do on the computer, and I need to clean up my house a bit as well.  Other than that.. I hope to enjoy a nice day at home with my puppies!  I hope you all have a good day!  Kisses, Sandee

Cody and I

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Here’s me and Cody today at Huntington dog beach.  It was sooo beautiful outside.. I love living by the beach… it’s so nice and peacful.  Hope you all are having a great weekend!  Kisses, Sandee

Part 2 of bday video from Puma!

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Twitter Updates for 2009-05-08

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Video of me being suprised on my bday!

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Thanks Puma for the video!! Mmmuah!

Happy Cinco De Mayo!!

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Sooo my friends and boyfriend threw me an AMAZING suprise birthday party at my house, last Sunday. heheh!  I was completely suprised and was shaking out of excitment for the first 10-15 minutes or so.  It was awesome… about 15 of my dearest friends there to celebrate with me :)

It was arranged to have a taco stand there, so you could make your own tacos… plenty of drinks and alchohol, all kinds of snacks, candy and the best…. a Sprinkles cupcake tier of 2 dozen cupcakes for everyone!  It was perfect!  (thank you Erick)  I had such an amazing 30th Birthday!!  One I will never forget.

It’s creeping up on me….. Dun dun dunnnnnn!!!

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This is my sad/slash/pouty face! Yupp…. I’m fighting it…. hard!! haha!  I’m going to be 30 in a couple of days and it’s a TRIP! HAHAH!  It’s not that bad… I just like to joke about it.  :)

Nothing too much new… I shot a couple sets for my members the other day.. and they all look sooo hot!  (compliments to the photographer) :)  I hope you all are following me on  Twitter for my day to day updates….  if not, check it out here:  www.twitter.com/sandeewestgate  Get on the boat…. everyone else is already there! heheh!

Hope you all have a great weekend! oxox, Sandee

Puma, Mariah and Meeeeee!

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We had a great day shopping, eating all kinds of bad food, and doing our cam show with LOOOOTTTTSSSS of wine!!  We went through 3 bottles, then got out the Rasberry Vodka for the after party!  Whew… that was funnn!  We got lots of video footage I’m going to have to get from Puma (it was her camera capturing it all) but you guys will love what went down after the show!!  I posted the cam show replay for members today… I hope you all love it! 

I hope to have a nice relaxing weekend.  I hope you do too!  Take care and join my site!!  http://www.sandeewestgate.com/join.html  xooxox, Sandee

Ouch!

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Hey everyone!  So, I got my tattoo finished the other day.  And WOW I’m sore still.  It’s the second day and it’s super duper tender.  The outline was perfectly fine after a day, but the filling in was much more intense and still is painful.  I’m basically done with it now.. I have a couple Konji symbols to add here and there, which I will do soon.. but other than that… I’m finished with it.  I’m overall really happy with it.  I haven’t been able to sleep any other way than on my left side the last couple of nights…. cause pressure on it hurts.  Ouch!

Not too much new in Sandee-Land :)  My sweetist friend, Star came over yesterday and that was awesome getting to see her again, and today I’m meeting up with one of my other best friends, Jesse Capelli and we’re taking all the boxers to the dog beach!  It’s been so beautiful outside lately… I’m looking forward to a beach visit :)  Here’s a pic of me and Bella yesterday at lunch in Huntington Beach:

I’m sooo excited!  Puma Swede and Mariah Milano are coming over to visit me tomorrow!!  Woo hooo!  Girls days are the BEST!  After lunch and shopping we are going to be doing a 3-girl cam show for members of www.sexysandee.com !  If you want to watch the 3 of us live for you… be sure to join my site today and catch the show tomorrow at 5pm pst!!  Don’t miss it!  It’s going to be soooo much fun!!  Join here: http://www.sandeewestgate.com/join.html  I hope to chat with you there!!

I’m off to hop in the shower… Hope you all have a wonderful day!

xoxo, Sandee

Words of wisdom

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I was on my facebook account earlier, and I saw one of my friends had posted the following.  It couldn’t be more true.  Take a look:

Your eyes can shift from love to hate, serenity to jealousy, in an instant. This happens every time you react to a given situation. The key to controlling your glances is found in a concept called resistance. Namely you resist the desire to react to instinctive impulses. Not only does this action of resistance prevent you from casting angry or jealous eyes at another person, it also helps you achieve your purpose in life.

How?

The moment you resist a reactive egocentric response, you find your true self - a proactive soul. That means you find the Light and fulfillment in that specific circumstance. When you react, you are not a creator. You are simply an effect. The person or situation that caused you to react is the cause. But when you resist reaction, you are now the cause of your emotion and the creator of your consciousness. That means fulfillment is now free to flow to you.

- Yehuda Berg

Happy Easter! Website discount!!

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Happy Easter everyone!  I actually don’t have plans.  My family doesn’t really make a HUGE deal out of Easter… plus they’re all up in Northern California, so I always stay in LA.  I’m going to get some cleaning done around my house, work on a few things… and chill with my doggies!!  I hope you all have a nice, relaxing Easter Sunday!! 

Oh… and I created an EASTER SPECIAL if you want to join my site for only $15!!!  The normal membership cost is $24.95, so that’s a big savings per month!!  CLICK THIS LINK to find out how you join now for only $15 a month!!  Get access to my entire site for $10 off the normal price! 

xoxox, Sandee

Last night was fun!

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We all had a great time last night at RA in Huntington Beach :)   It took forever to place our food order… but once we did it was smooth sailing :) hehe!  We walked over to Basken Robbins on Main St. for some ice cream after dinner, then we all headed home.  A good night with good friends.  You can see all the pics here!

I hope you all have a great weekend!!  My next live cam show and chat for members in Monday at 4pm pst!  I hope to see you there!  If you’re not a member… JOIN NOW!!!

24 days and counting!

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Oh boy…. I’m going to be 30 in 24 days!!  That is insane to me!  My mom had me when she was 30 and already had my sister (who was almost 5).  WOW…. I’m sooo not ready to have all of that in my life.  A few of my good friends already have babies, and it’s so out of my element.  But I guess now that I’m going to be 30, I need to start thinking about that old “biological time clock” ticking.   Ahhh screw it.. I’ll start being more concerned about that stuff in a few years!  I have time :)   I’ve always been the one to say “Age is just a number” and I really do stand by that opinion, but 30!!!  it sounds so old to me. hehe! I still feel 21!   I’m not worried with how I’m aging, cause I think I’m doing a pretty good job of “preserving” myself per se… but it’s just surreal.  Life happens soooo fast doesn’t it?  I guess it makes me appreciate all of the good things I have going for me, and the amazing friends and loved ones I have in my life.   Thanks to all of you for supporting me… caring about me… and being in my life!  I appreciate ever last one of you! ♥

I was talking to one of my girlfriends the other day about my sexuality… and how I’m pretty “active” in that department! hehe!  ALSO, that the 30’s are supposed to be your “sexual prime”.  Which is sort of crazy, cause I can’t imagine myself being even MORE sexual than I am now. LOL!  Not that I’m a freaking nympho or anything, I’m just saying..  I hope I don’t turn into one! hehe!  (okay, maybe it’s not THAT bad of phase to go through)  Should be fun anyway… right?

Let’s see… what do I have going this month…??  I get my tattoo finished on the 20th, and I can’t wait to have it done.  I think it’s going to look so much better when it is complete… then on the 25th I have a photoshoot downtown LA, which I’m excited for.  And then it’s May!  My Birthday will be here before I know it!  I’m scared damnit! hahaha! (I’m only kidding, for the fun of it)   My loving memebrs and fans always flourish me with gifts on my Birthday.. and I usually direct them to my wishlist, but I was thinking…. I do sooooo much shopping on Ebay… maybe an Ebay gift certificate would be nice??  That way I can choose whatever I want.  If that sounds good to you, you can email me one to info@glam-touch.com by using this link: http://certificates.ebay.com/ .  I promise this isn’t my way of begging for gifts!  I’m not like that, ask anyone I’m close to.. but I know some of you (not saying any names) hehehe love to spoil me!  Which of course is very flattering and I love it and appreciate you guys to death! :)  Here’s a big THANK YOU in advance!! hehe!

Well, I have to work on the next gallery going up for members Monday morning.  I hope you are all having a great week.  Tonight I’m doing dinner with a big group of my good friends in Huntington… then tomorrow is lunch with my girlfriends.  I’m looking forward to it.  I’ll be sure to take pics!  Love you guys!~  If you’re not a member of my site… why???  hehe!  Check it out here: http://SexySandee.comxoxo, Sandee

Twilight

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So I had been seeing all the fuss about Twilight the movie, books, ect… and that is basically has a cult-Esq following.   The movie came out on DVD Tuesday so I JUST HAD to see what all the commotion is about.  And now I see! hehehe!  I looooved it!  I had no idea what to expect, but I loved this movie, and the story line.  I was completely captivated by the “love story” within the movie.  Call me a hopeless romantic, but that’s the part that touched me.  I also felt the characters played their parts AMAZINGLY well.  I’m going to have to order the books now.  (which is saying a lot) because I have never, ever, read fiction. hehe :)

Well, I had an interesting night after my movie, didn’t sleep too well.. but I woke up feeling refreshed.  Each day is a new, fresh start… right? :)  I think so!   This morning I have to finish up some work for my members area, and clean my house.  I hate it when it’s not nice and tidy. ehhe, it makes me feel fusterated.  So… other than that… I plan on staying home and relaxing a bit more.  I hope you all have a great day!  Check out the new updates in the members area…. http://sandeewestgate.com  Don’t miss out!! xoox, Sandee

 

New Tattoo

Author: admin  //  Category: SandeeWestgate.com

It’s interesting. I’ve been telling EVERYONE that I plan on getting my side tattoo’d.. even my mom.   And now that I have it, and I’ve been sending pics to people who have known me for YEARS (without any ink on my side) and they are in SHOCK!  LOL.  I’m like… PEOPLE I’ve been telling you and warming you up to the fact I will be having this done for a looong time now.  Either way.. I love it.

THis is just session one.  The outline. I have to go back April 20th to get it shaded in (which will make it look A MILLION TIMES BETTER) and add a couple lotus flowers, one of which will be a cover up on my playboy bunny tattoo.  Here’s a pic since I’ve been home and the swelling as gone down a bit:

I love it… and yes.. it hurt like a muther fucker! hehehe!  Thank god I had the most amazing man there with me feeding me my favorite candies, gum, and holding my hand.  (Thank you Erick)  And here’s a front shot… which I like because you get just a glimplse of it from the front…. which I think is sexy!  heheh

Well, my babies have been alone for hours and I just got back not too long ago.  I hope everyone has a great night!  Kisses, Sandee

A little update :)

Author: admin  //  Category: SandeeWestgate.com

How is everyone?  I’ve been busy working the last few days… resting up.  Last TuesdayI had to go back to the Dermatologist to get MORE skin removed.  Uuuhg!  It wasn’t bad really…. I just don’t necessarily like the heart racing the epinephrine gives you (from the numbing agent). But other than that.. I didn’t feel anything.  I’m left with a few stitches, and it seems to be healing okay.   It’s scary to think about.  EVERYONE GET YOUR MOLES CHECKED!!    It’s worth it :)

I’m super excited.. in 4 days on the 31st I go in for my new tattoo!  I’ve had this planned for MONTHS and It’s finally here.  I know a lot of my fans don’t like tattoo’s… but all I can tell you is, I personally think it will look feminine and sexy!   I’m getting a really feminine swirly design down my right side on my ribs.  OUCH!  Not looking forward to the pain at all.. but it’s something I’ve wanted for soooo long.  I’ll be sure to take pics and post em’ after it’s all done.

My doggies are doing good!  Rocket knows how to catch a Frisbee now!!  He’s gotten soooo good at it!  I’m a proud mamma!  And Dylan ALLLLMOST can catch it.  He just needs a little more confidence in himself and he will easily be able to do it.  Cody, Bella and Chanel are all momma’s babies and love to just lay around and cuddle all day. hehehe!   ♥ Such sweet babies.

Today I have to go get my nails done and run some basic errands.  I hope you all have a great day!  Kisses, Sandee xooxoxox

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Santa Barbara

Author: admin  //  Category: SandeeWestgate.com

Hey everyone!  I went to Santa Barbara for a day or so for a little “get away”.  Here’s a pic of me freeezzzzin!  hehe!  It was really overcast and rainy off and on, but was still a total blast.  I had a great time!

I have a cam show planned for tomorrow at 3pm pst in the members area.  I hope to see you there and chat with you live!  If you’re not a member, be sure to join now!!  http://www.sandeewestgate.com/join.html

xoxox, Sandee