Phew!!!!! What a day!

Posted by Sandee 8 comments

I had my alarm set for 4:50am this morning for my big court day!!  Of course, I woke up about 10 minutes before it was about to go off, and I just stayed awake.   I left here (orange County) with 2 hours to get downtown where I was supposed to be.  There wasn’t much traffic at 6am, so it was easy and non-stressful.   Of course I got there early and was the first in line to go in.

Anyways, things didn’t go AMAZING for me today… but my $7k a month payment was lowered to $4k (although it extends the length of the payment schedule) Meaning,  I still have to pay my ex the same global amount, that part didn’t change.

I’m now relived from paying on the house as well, which was a plus since I haven’t lived there in over 2 years and I was still paying half of the mortgage. (that part definitely wasn’t fair). 

I also had to pay one lump sum of $25k (to my ex) from the funds that have been held the last couple months from my website.   That part sort of sucks, but I still have a good amount of money left from what was held to make up my bills.  Still sucks I had to pay that large sum though. 

I left completely annoyed and somewhat stressed, but then I realized…. it’s fucking over.  No more dealing with this guy or his attorney’s.  I’ll pay my monthly amount of $4k for 3 more years and be done with it.   No more house with this guy, no more arguing (I hope) NO MORE!  It’s dunzo!!  Which is what I wanted. 

So, all in all… it was a good day, I guess! LOL!   Didn’t get what I hoped for, but I got something that is decent.  Better than my previous situation.  

After I left court, I had to drive to Redondo to co-sign on a joint account, and getting there was shiity… then leaving and coming back home took a while as well.   I’ve been home for about an hour now and I’m fucking famished.  Time to go chill with my doggies and baby!!  Have a good night everyone!

 

8 Comments
Sep 16, 2008
7:02 pm
#1 Karly :

I have a question, will you ever stop marking your pictures? It completely throws the beauty of the picture way off. Sad to hear you had to pay him so much, why on earth were you paying a mortgage when you weren’t living in the house? You should have taken that to court a longtime ago. Why do you have to pay him so much anyway? Who was the one who wanted the divorce? Sorry, so many questions. I’m curious though.

Sep 16, 2008
7:18 pm
#2 indy :

i think your ex got more then he deserve now,it sould have been over a long time ago.but as you said sweetie!!”after you leave them they get monsters”…..ok ok mayby in other words

P.S. sandee’s ex shame on you,i atually had alot off respect of you but now i only have 2 words for you …. … and now leave sandee along.

cheers sandee luv ya babe!!

Sep 16, 2008
11:29 pm
#3 Apollo :

Well Sandee..even though things didn’t work out exactly how you were hoping..there is some light at the end of the tunnel now…and you’ll be free & clear after 3 more years….Thank God!!….

And as Indy mentioned above…from what I knew of your Ex…I never expected this from him…and was kinda shocked when I first heard what was goin’ on…

Hope the rest of your week goes well…talk to ya soon…Muuaahhhh!!!

Sep 17, 2008
3:59 am
#4 dogmatic :

I’m happy to hear that this mess is finally settled, so you can unburden your mind and focus on getting on with your life. Peace of mind is priceless – you can have that now. You won! – <3, Dog

Sep 17, 2008
9:53 am
#5 alesan :

yO ARE FREE NOW. tHIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS. CMON SANDEE TAKE IT EASY!!
KISS
ALESAN

Sep 17, 2008
5:06 pm
#6 bobsully :

Glad to see you are at a point of “moving on.” Certainly one of the most stressful events in one’s life so you have the right attitude, it is behind you, it is the past.

Sep 17, 2008
8:22 pm
#7 Puma Swede :

What an IDIOT! Hahahaa, I mean Josh Ryan of course :) Love you babe!

Your Swede

Sep 21, 2008
6:27 am
#8 Cyril :

I like you to treat well on your illness. I hope that ca will quickly go better very.
Kiss…

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