I’ve re posted my link (for men) on how to give the best oral sex to a woman time and time agian.  If you haven’t read the first one…  be sure to check it out here as well:  http://blog.sandeewestgate.com/2009/03/oral-sex-instructions-for-men/

Here is some other information that I personally agree with I figured could be valuable to a man wanting to improve his oral sex techniques:

• Easy tiger
  Don’t just go barging in down there. Take your time, and make sure you are both feeling turned on before you venture south. If you aren’t used to giving head, don’t expect to bring her to a climax in seconds flat. And if you have bad stubble on your chin, forget it; no girl wants razor burns in such a sensitive place.
• Ask what she likes
  You don’t necessarily have to go down on her for several hours – just a few minutes of oral sex can do wonders for your foreplay. Ask her what feels good and if there’s anything that would make it better. Make sure you are both in a comfortable position, or you’ll end up with an unsexy crick in your neck.
• No magic formulas
  Every female is different. There is no point in rigidly following those ‘Ten Easy Steps to Give Her an Oral Orgasm’ articles in lads’ mags. It isn’t like an exam, with right and wrong answers. Sometimes you have to experiment to see what works for both of you.
• Start gently
  Many women say that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration. So remember to take it easy and avoid being rough, especially to begin with. Look where you are going too. Gently part the outer lips of the vagina and look for the vaginal opening, and the hooded clitoris above it. These are the most pleasurable areas to stimulate, and are the key to giving the best head. Thrusting a tongue in and out of the vagina might feel good for a moment or two, but it won’t be enough to tip her over the edge.
• Work it
  Try kissing and licking anywhere between her thighs to turn her on. Move on to the clitoris, starting with gentle licking or sucking. Get her to tell you what motion feels the best, what speed and what pressure turn her on the most. Try it with a relaxed, soft tongue, and change to a firmer, pointed tongue. Some women love an up-and-down licking motion, others like it to go from side to side (like a windscreen wiper), and others still like a circular or pressing-down motion.
• Patience, patience
  When you have found something that works well, keep on doing it! Take a break if you need one, but avoid stopping suddenly because it can be very frustrating for the woman. Ask if she wants you to use your fingers as well. If she says ‘yes’, make sure they are wet before you start moving them around on her clit or inside her.
• Practice makes perfect
  Even if you are both very experienced lovers, it can take a long time to bring the woman to orgasm, so don’t stress out, and keep practicing if that’s what you’re aiming for. It’s worth the effort, and she will most likely be happy to return the favour.

Referenced from TheSite.org

My personal suggestion (as a woman) when you’re down there…. start your thing so she can get a feel for how you do “things” then ask her,  “HOW DO YOU LIKE IT”.  Not… Is that good baby??  The difference here is that you’re actually asking a question where it gives her a segway into telling you what she likes vrs…. just saying “yeah”.     When you actually WANT to please her and make her cum… find out from HER what she likes.  Every girls is different, and every man’s technique is different.  So NEVER assume because your last girl liked something in paticular… that this girl will like the same thing.  Ask ask ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Give her a way to tell you without her feeling like she’s hurting your feelings or correcting you.

Another HUGE thing is…. SEDUCE HER!  It takes 20 minutes for a girl to be hot and ready…. FULLY aroused.  Sure, some of us like quickies too… but it’s not likely she will be fully aroused.   So kiss her… tease her…. lick her thighs… back up to kissing her… do anything you can to “work her up” before going down.